Seize the Moment: How to Dive into Opportunities with Confidence
Have you ever felt paralysed by overthinking before starting something new?
Taking the leap is one of the most powerful keys to success, and I truly believe that. When I was 18, I had always dreamed of pursuing my passion for makeup and working for myself. But at the time, I hadn’t seen anyone around me doing anything similar—everyone I knew was following the traditional career path.
Then, I started watching my favourite YouTubers, who were sharing their passion and creativity through videos. That’s when I realised I could do the same—and it gave me the push I needed to dive in. To be honest, I didn’t even have a clear plan or strategy.
I just filmed myself doing a makeup look inspired by the sunset (I think it was sunset-inspired, at least!). I didn’t have fancy equipment or a computer to edit the footage. I used my iPhone and edited everything on iMovie. I also didn’t have a vast collection of makeup products like the influencers I admired, but I used what I had.
The key takeaway is this: I could have let my lack of equipment, knowledge of makeup, or editing skills hold me back. But instead, I just decided to do it anyway. Sometimes, things won’t line up perfectly, and we won’t have everything we think we need—but we have to start anyway. Holding ourselves back only keeps us stuck. The truth is, if we wait for everything to be perfect, we may never take that first step.
Why We Hesitate
There are several reasons why we hesitate before seizing opportunities, and they’re all valid:- Fear of failure and rejection
- Overthinking and perfectionism
- Lack of confidence and clarity about goals
But here’s the thing: we can’t let these fears define us. Life is full of challenges, and if we don’t take the leap, we become stagnant. Growth comes from pushing past fear and uncertainty. We need to challenge ourselves—especially when it’s scary.
Mindset Shifts That Helped Me Embrace Opportunities
Here are a few mindset shifts that helped me stop overthinking and embrace new opportunities with confidence:
- Don’t focus too much on what others are doing. This can quickly dim your light and make you feel inadequate before you’ve even tried. Your journey is your own.
- Remember, it’s your vision, not anyone else’s. Stay true to your purpose, and don’t get caught up in comparison.
- Do it for your future self. Even when you doubt yourself, do it anyway. I’ve created Instagram reels and YouTube videos when I felt like my worst self, and those have been some of my most viewed posts. Trust me—your future self will thank you.
- You don’t lose anything but gain confidence, resilience, and valuable learning experiences. Every attempt, even if it doesn’t go perfectly, helps you grow.
- Take action immediately. To avoid procrastination, start with just one tiny step. The momentum will build.
- Set goals using the SMART method. This will help give the direction and purpose of your dreams.
- Speak life and positivity into your goals. As Proverbs 18:21 says, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” Your words shape your reality, so speak positively about what you’re trying to achieve.
Conclusion: Execute, Don’t Wait for Perfection
Plan, set goals, and execute—don’t wait for everything to align perfectly. Just start, and the path will reveal itself.
This week, challenge yourself to say "yes" to one opportunity you’d normally overthink or hesitate about. Whether it’s signing up for a class, exploring a new hobby, or volunteering for a new project, take the leap. Afterwards, write down what you did, how it felt, and what you learned from the experience. Share your progress in the comments or tag me on social media—I’d love to celebrate your wins with you!
